Why Most Relationships Fail (And How to Choose Better)

In this episode, I sit down with ‪Mark Groves, founder of Create The Love, to talk about relationships, breakups, attachment styles, and the quiet ways we abandon ourselves in love.

We unpack why so many relationships fail, why women often stay too long, and how anxious and avoidant attachment patterns shape who we choose. Mark explains the difference between compromise and self-abandonment, how to spot real green flags and red flags, and why the most loving thing you can sometimes do is walk away.

We also talk about divorce, boundaries, love bombing, emotional availability, and how to move toward a secure attachment without trying to fix or save someone else.

If you’re healing from a breakup, questioning your patterns, or trying to build a healthier relationship, this conversation will change how you see love and yourself.

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Chapters:

00:00 Intro

02:30 Breakups, divorce, and choosing yourself

05:00 When leaving is the most loving choice

07:00 Green flags, red flags, and love bombing

10:15 Power dynamics, boundaries, and emotional safety

14:30 Scarcity vs abundance in dating

17:30 Why intimacy dies and resentment builds

21:00 Why women leave relationships more often

27:00 Attachment styles explained (anxious vs avoidant)

33:30 Healing patterns, grief, and becoming secure

44:00 How to fully come alive after a breakup

47:20 Faith, trust, and what’s meant for you

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